Happy New Year in February!  I really wanted my beloved nephew, a brilliant Wordsmith, to write my first blog on this topic, but he’s too busy.  So here I go, and I hope we all get to hear from him soon. The first line of Auld Lang Syne asks, “Should auld acquaintance be forgot  and never brought to mind?” From High School, and way beyond, friends will come and go, as will boyfriends and girlfriends.  Most of the time, it’s extremely painful when the relationship ends, and in an effort to ease the trauma, sometimes, we chase after a relationship that just isn’t healthy for us anymore.  Don’t do that. …